Teens Struggle to Choose Faith Over Fear Too

My name is Zybrea Knight aka ZyMone’t and I struggle to choose Faith over Fear!

When I think of faith and fear, I think of a battle between Faith vs. Fear. And, I believe you have to pick a side. Will you choose Faith or Fear? Almost like Life or Death. The choice is yours.

As youth, we often worry about how I am going to look? Will what I want to say come out the right or wrong way? Will I be able to translate all the thoughts I have going on in my mind? OR Will I keep them all bottled up inside.? Fear of being judged or misunderstood, talked about and mistreated, not fitting in, the normal pressures of society.

All of these thoughts were mine, living in fear.

I am a 16-year-old Christian who is taught to have faith in every situation. Although, I have been taught to have faith, I have struggled with exercising my faith because I would allow fear to get in my way.

In Hebrews 11:1, it tells us what faith is:

“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things unseen.”

It is significant to recognize what is meant by the word “hope” in this scripture. It’s not the “Oh, I hope it is going to be nice out today” kind of hope. This is a different, more extreme kind of hope that which cannot be separated from faith. A mentor of mine once told me, “Without hope, what is Faith? Fear is the complete opposite of faith. It is a denial of the hope that God will take care of us no matter what trials we come up against.”

There was a time when I was asked to dance solo for my mother who was an honorary at my church’s women’s service. I said yes, and it felt like seconds after I gave my answer, I started sweating and over-thinking. I became scared! I went through a week of rehearsal and was petrified of how it would turn out. I had become so used to doing the ballet, jazz and tap, I wasn’t sure how to present a praise dance, especially one that was going to be good for my mother; who is the head of the praise dance ministry. I felt crazy pressure. I didn’t want to make one single mistake. I called my aunt and asked her if she could help me and she told me to pray.

I prayed and asked God to help me not be scared, but to help me minister through dance. If you need help with knowing what to say as you pray, check out this post, 7 Prayers That Will Change Your Life Forever.

The day came and it was time for me to do the dance for my mom, I was a bit shaky and I heard a little voice in my head say:

“For God gave us a spirit, not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” (2 Timothy 1:7)

From that point on I felt God was with me throughout it all. By growing in our faith, fear will find it more difficult to get ahold of us. Even when it seems impossible, you can choose faith over fear.

Each time you are afraid or faced with adversity, use that time as an opportunity to grow in your faith. Keeping in mind that even though it may not seem like it at the time, God will never send a difficulty your way that is too big for you to handle with His help.

Corinthians 10:13 says…

“No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.”

Whether your fear be of something as little as a bug or as large as speaking in front of an audience or being in a relationship, always remember that fear is conquered by faith. Which will you choose?

Let’s not end this here. Comment below on how easy or difficult it’s been for you to choose faith over fear.

~XO, ZyMone’t

I’m excited to welcome Zybrea to the TiffyTalks team as an Intern Content Developer. Zebra’s desire to help people, makes her a happy addition. Please say hello to Zybrea!

P.S. At the last KNOW YOUR WORTH Brunch we had our first teen in attendance, and she didn’t boo us! LOL. Our young people need to know their worth EARLY, CLICK HERE to join us at the next #KYWBrunch on June 12th!

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By | 2017-03-10T19:25:00+00:00 June 7th, 2016|blog|19 Comments

About the Author:

I am a young woman after God's own heart and my mission in life is to communicate, build and inspire, while expressing the values of Purposefulness, Compassion and Self-Mastery. I am passionate about Psychology, as well as encouraging and uplifting others to gain control over themselves and live their lives to the fullest.


  1. Angela Knight June 7, 2016 at 11:04 am - Reply

    This was amazing and thought provoking! The topics faith over fear is one that we all struggle with at different stages in our lives. When our flesh says be scared God’s word reminds us, in the extremely appropriate stated scriptures, what did I give you? If we have His spirit on the inside we have power love and self control! He gave us power to be conquerors and I’m so glad my niece reminded me of that this morning!! Love this, keep more coming!

    • ZyMonèt June 7, 2016 at 4:30 pm - Reply

      It’s quite similar to the mind over matter.. Fear is all in our head, Don’t give in to fear! With having Faith and Trusting God all things are possible! We are more than conquerors!

      Keep following the blog,

  2. Kiera Marsh-Hall June 7, 2016 at 11:12 am - Reply

    Great perspective. As a spiritual teen myself, I completely agree. It is nice to see these issues talked about.

    • ZyMonèt June 7, 2016 at 4:22 pm - Reply

      Keep Following the blog! Our voices will be heard! Stay encouraged Ki!

  3. Meki June 7, 2016 at 11:17 am - Reply

    Very insightful and a testament to your love of the Lord. What I have learned is the Word will give you all the answers and understanding you need. By staying diligent in the Word, you gain strength and the ability to see when the devil is trying to attack you or place the spirit of fear inside you. But God! If you stay fed by the scripture and rooted in prayer He will continue to give you wisdoms, understanding, and the strength to be faithful to His word!

    • ZyMonèt June 7, 2016 at 4:26 pm - Reply

      Yes he will, Amen!

  4. Shanika Knight June 7, 2016 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    This was awesome! Very well written and thought out. Most importantly it was bold and courageous. Many Christian teens are not in this mind set at age 16, as a matter of fact some adults don’t either, your faith was shown simply by just writing this blog. You’ve have now opened a platform for other Christian teens and adults to choose Faith over Fear! Very proud of you niece! Great Job????????

    • ZyMonèt June 8, 2016 at 7:55 am - Reply

      Thank You Aunt Nika! We’re going places! ???? Keep God first …. You know the rest????????

  5. Dee Hampton June 7, 2016 at 4:30 pm - Reply

    This article was Amazing! Hearing perspectives from our youth especially related to faith is rewarding. I look forward to hearing her future perspectives as a young Christian.

  6. Danielle June 7, 2016 at 5:15 pm - Reply

    I am so proud of the young lady/young woman you are turning out to be I love you and the wonderful job your mom has done. Rj said great job on your blog and I so agree ????

    • ZyMonèt June 8, 2016 at 8:04 am - Reply

      Thanks Ms.Danielle!!! Keep following the blog and subscribe to get them!!

  7. Michelle Wong June 7, 2016 at 5:22 pm - Reply

    Great article. Well written. I am impressed and proud of you. Keep up the good work. I love that you were able to write this in a way that not only applies to young adults but to people of all ages. We all should choose Faith over Fear always.

    • ZyMonèt June 8, 2016 at 8:08 am - Reply

      Thank You!!! Please Keep following for more blogs!!!!

  8. Chelsea G. June 7, 2016 at 9:46 pm - Reply

    Awesome job Zy! Keep up the great work, for exercising your faith can be great encouragement for others, including myself!????

  9. Lashanna Frager June 7, 2016 at 10:28 pm - Reply

    Very encouraging and I pray that as you walk by faith in this new endeavor that it will touch the life’s of all those who read your blog ????

  10. shaquille garrett June 8, 2016 at 6:22 am - Reply

    This was definitely a good read. Thank you for standing for christ. I hear alot that this is a lost generation, but its youth like you that shows that there is still a remnant of young people who will serve the lord. Thank you so much

  11. Malaika June 8, 2016 at 11:43 am - Reply

    Such a great topic that can be applied to anyone at any age; But so important for other young people to see the perspective of their peer. As a mother raising a Teenage daughter, I often wonder what challenges she may face and what I can do to help her through. I speak to her about allowing God to use her, and her gifts for his glory. She recently faced something that I now realize was a fear for her. I’m not sure if she has quite overcome it, so I’ve already been blessed by this and now have scriptures to give my daughter related to Faith over Fear. I’m also excited to see that there’s a platform for her as a Christian Teen.
    *Very proud of this young lady, and look forward to seeing more!

  12. Shellé Williams June 8, 2016 at 1:21 pm - Reply

    Encouraging! Inspiring! Empowering! I believe that FEAR cripples people, specifically the body of Christ, more than anything. This is an awesome testimony of God’s overcoming power. Touches my heart even more to see this victory in the lives of our young people!! Keep yielding your gifts to God and He will take you further than you ever imagined!!

  13. Angie June 9, 2016 at 12:02 am - Reply

    Wow! I want to say you are a very beautiful, intelligent young lady! You are truly blessed! Its amazing of all that you said, as an adult I go through the same and I’m sure there are others. You really spoke from your heart. This is some real stuff girl! Every time I see your beautiful pictures you look so professional, well polished and you know what your doing! You could not have wrote this any better. God has given you a gift that no one in this world can have like you do. You spoke to my soul! Thank you!

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